Just when we thought Summer was coming to an end, Summer Walker is actually just beginning. Everything she’s said so far I’m sure you or someone you know can relate to.
At a time where it’s extremely convenient to be unintentional. Summer is asking all the necessary questions and addressing all the things that most won’t.
Ladies and gents if you not asking these questions, hats off to you and yours. However……. I need to know.
The song begins with an acoustic melody, and her voice is a perfect soft but raspy combination when necessary. The lyrics are perfectly on point, she starts by saying “Whip, bought it. Crib, got it. Job, on it.” Basically to communicate clearly that she does not have a need for those things. Then goes into expressing she never asked for the things that she’s been given. Although all appealing but material things she expresses that her desires go beneath the surface.
I dig it! It’s very necessary and extremely relevant in current times. I love the song, not only because it’s easy to relate. But it has a great melody and she has the perfect sound and pitch. Its perfect Bath time music, ahhh I love hot bubble baths ☺.
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The tempo picks up throughout the song sure to slow down so that we can clearly hear her enunciate her words when needed, Then back up dramatically throughout the Corus. It’s a very clean production! Good song to relax to, and I’d love to see her Pole work to this one!
I’m here for it, all of it and looking forward to more music from this artist. Be on the lookout for the “Forever Summer” Playlist dropping from #SpreadLoveGoodMusic.
Before embracing being “Single Again”, was Triggered. It’s nothing like a good old nasty breakup. Both parties confused and don’t know what to do. Going through withdrawals and feeling every emotion possible. “I thought this was what I wanted”, “It is what I want”, or “We can just remain friends”. Then you really start to think about the time you spent, things you did, and evaluate the adjustments you gotta immediately make to ensure you don’t have any moments of despair. Moments where you’re instantly reminded of the person you’re trying to get over.
Initially you’re okay cause like Usher said “You don’t have to call”. You go gather up your girls/boys and hit the club or the kick back and get a few numbers to engage in rebound activity. Or you take the high road and remember who TF you are. You find a hobby, start working out, or engage in some extracurricular activity to distract you that is until you just can’t take it no more. Some of y’all gone probably go fuck ya ex ex and regret it. Days go by, reality sets in and then you start to resent that person. It’s even worse when you start thinking they out and about having a good time, living their best life when naturally they gotta be thinking the same thing about you, especially if it was real. Like I wasted my time and energy on this shit. I don’t even like you but I gotta share a kid with you? It was a bigger picture, but you just running a muck like you don’t even care? Man it don’t even matter, plus we most likely came to this agreement together, so our feelings should be mutual even when the reality checks in. Tit for tat, You start to remember all the bad and it trumps the good.
So why TF to I even care, cause I don’t
think he/she do. People gone think all kinda shit now. We was a power couple, us
never them, #Goals to some, last month it was “All I need in this life of sin” Now
we over, #nothing. I just wanna see them, but I don’t want them. They gone miss
me, right as soon as I stop missing them.
HOW DO I GET PAST THIS? Try music therapy and the steps below……
*DO NOT TELL ANYTHING (ESPECIALLY TO FAMILY) THAT YOU COULD REGRET SAYING ABOUT THE EX. ESPECIALLY IF YOU HOPE TO MAINTAIN ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS PERSON* You could possibly get back together and it could make you look foolish.
Separate yourself – It’s going to be hard to go
from lovers to friends especially if emotions are involved. Take the time and
space to heal
Don’t try to forget, just forgive – Good and bad
will remain regardless, work towards forgiving
Practice self-care – Care for yourself the same way you once care
for your relationship
NEVER TAKE IT PERSONAL – Know that your worth is
not defined by the status or success of your relationship.
Write it out, Talk about it – Take the time to
express how you feel. To get it off your heart, you may find that talking about
it, helps gain clarity.
Don’t (TRY Not) go back, especially if it was
toxic – Maybe it didn’t work for a reason. Realize that rekindling may not be
the answer to your loneliness and it most likely won’t solve the original
problem that you had.
Find the lesson in all of it – Learn from your success and failures. It will help with bettering yourself for your next relationship. Who knows maybe yall can come together and sing about it on a track. See yesterday’s review for “Single Again”
I’ve found that its not much a little music therapy can’t fix. Make a or download a breakup playlist. Dance and sing along, eventually you’ll start to feel better.
Well Big Sean is and he has taken to music platforms to share how he plans to handle this one. As we all know he and ex Jhene’ Aiko has been a big deal in the entertainment industry and have taken a different approach to remain reputable with each other and within music media with partnering on Sean’s new single entitled “Single Again”.
When the song first begins it samples Carl Thomas’s “I wish” and he starts with the lyrics “What happens when it’s too good to throw away? You either let it go bad or go away, I need to pray”. I love it, because naturally it’s almost never the following approach. The artist begins to explore other options like let’s be friends, and spending his time and cash on himself. With a high tempo rhythm he makes you want to listen to the lyrics and consider being single during this #hotgirlsummer, not so bad after all. When the beat drops the song makes you wanna vibe and dance to it, have a drink or 2 and embrace it not for anyone else but for self.
With great points like not placing the blame, and admitting it could be him. He explores the topic of parenting issues and how things between his parents never worked out. Which are all great therapy and discussion pieces alone. It’s enough to make you think, could that cause great impact on your relationships with other people. The major key to all this is to have his ex on the chorus with him, could that mean they are on one accord. At such a pivotal time they could’ve taken this in many directions but they choose the mature and peaceful route which makes this song even more appealing. With a new look, and more mature sound, the 3:34 second song says it easy to just do what’s best when being alone and that’s to take care of you. No drugs, not more girls, or even partying can help with the healing hurt after a breakup, you gotta just take care of you. I hear a little Ty Dolla in the end too. I think the song is dope, anybody else recently Single Again? Meditate /Pray, Go get cute/fly, wash up the whip, roll all the windows down and play this as loud as you can on repeat to some kind of me time activity. Just thank Sean later ;-).
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